2013 July 04 Thursday
Guy Who Had Sex With High School Teacher Not Scarred

Teacher Laura Elizabeth Whitehurst of Redlands California was initiating teenage boy students into the world of sexual pleasure. Now that she's been caught another guy has come forward to brag and he probably doesn't care he's getting her into deeper legal trouble. 'I didn't feel like a victim; I'm not scarred for life or anything.'

'When it happens, you're kind of like, all right, this is pretty badass,' he said. 'You know, my teacher is into me. I was 17 and I was having a good time is what it was.

So why is he talking?

Do most teachers who have sex with students get away with it?

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WJ said at July 4, 2013 11:17 PM:

"Do most teachers who have sex with students get away with it?"

Probably, and probably a higher percentage of female than male teachers get away with it. Girls are apt to have regrets. Guys just tend to think, "Awesome! I got laid!" Male teachers who have sex with female students are viewed as predators, while female teachers who shag their students are just considered to be not-quite-right-in-the-head.

None of this should really be surprising since, increasingly, teachers are near the bottom of college grads in terms of SAT scores, IQ, etc. They're the kind of women who sleep around promiscuously and love to hook up with douchebags. They might even think they're starting real relationships. This is not to bash all teachers by any means, a lot of whom are smart, hardworking, and dedicated; but an increasing number of teachers are dingleberries. You'll note that the male students they sleep with tend to be douchebags, not "smart-but-timid-and-never-been-laid" nerd types that might attract a smart woman.

Women used to not have many professional options, so teaching attracted a large number of smart, respectable women. I attended high school when there were still teachers educated during the tail end of the pre-feminist era, and many of the older female teachers had real brains. I assumed that the younger female teachers weren't as good because they were younger and less experienced. Now I realize it's because smarter women were choosing better paying careers that weren't open when the older teachers were in college.

WJ said at July 4, 2013 11:25 PM:

I'd add something to my above comment: in a high school, twenty-something teachers will be sandwiched age-wise between teachers and administrators who are often much older (or who seem a lot older, if they're married), and students who aren't much younger. Being young, single, etc., they'll often be drawn to identify more with their students than with their co-workers, especially in an age that glamorizes youth, singlehood, etc.

Black Death said at July 5, 2013 7:41 AM:

Here's a story about a high school teacher, a former Cincinnati Bengals cheerleader, who had sex with a 17 year old male student. What happened to her? Not much:

In accepting the plea agreement, Judge Patricia Summe granted prosecutors' recommendation to sentence Jones to five years of diversion but no jail time, and she won't have to register as a sex offender. The diversion requires Jones to report to a probation officer and undergo drug tests.

Prosecutors said they were willing to make the deal because the teen, now 18, and his family were uncooperative with them and on Jones' side.

....

The "victim" and his family supported the teacher and refused to cooperate with the police and prosecutors. Now she wants to go to law school! She probably won't lack for clients, at least male ones. Can you imagine such an outcome if the genders were reversed? Not bloody likely!

ErisGuy said at July 5, 2013 1:32 PM:

"I'm not scarred for life."

How does he know and why should I believe him?

I'm sure he knows the purpose of sex is to use women to have a good time. Hmmm.

aandrews said at July 5, 2013 2:43 PM:

"...is what it was."

Black idiom.

Seriously? said at July 5, 2013 4:00 PM:

"How does he know and why should I believe him?"

Sex "scars" people?

Check it out said at July 5, 2013 4:43 PM:

I personally see nothing wrong with teenage boys having sex with older women whether they are teachers or not, but not the other way around, that is with the genders reversed.

Paying more attention to complying with the law rather than to what should be obvious, is a manifestation of a decadent judicial system. What is tragic about stupid laws is that you still have to comply with them even if they are stupid. That is really tragic.

If I had a son boning his high school female teacher I would give him some recommendations on how not to fall too in love with her, but I would silently be feeling proud thinking, "that's my boy!"

destructure said at July 6, 2013 12:34 AM:

Do most teachers who have sex with students get away with it?

There's no way to know. Because you don't know about the ones who get away with it. But, if I had to guess, I'd say most probably do get away with it.

WJ said at July 6, 2013 9:26 AM:

"Do most teachers who have sex with students get away with it?"

Most teachers get away with it because it's consensual. Four ways they get caught: witnesses, gossip, regrets, biological consequences (pregnancy & STDs).

It's highly hypocritical that we've been sexualizing our culture for decades, practically encouraging adolescents to have sex, giving them access (often free) to birth control and abortion, and expecting that sometimes they wouldn't end up sleeping with adults. Adults are generally more knowledgeable, more independent, and more confident - everything most teenagers aspire to be, things that attract them. What unrelated adults are in their social circles? Teachers, bosses, coaches.

mapman said at July 6, 2013 7:57 PM:

What a bunch of crap! When I was 17 years old, I had equally no problem banging 16 and 22 years old women. Eventually I married one of them - who just happened to be four years older. Blah. Criminalizing sex with 17 year old boys is the most insane thing a society can do!

REN said at July 7, 2013 11:07 AM:

I filter the human animal via his amygdala and hippocampus. Deep in his hind brain is the amygdala, where all his demons reside. The hippocampus mediates the amygdala's demons, fears, and images, usually when asleep. This amygdala-hippocampus mechanism forms logical neural pathways allowing the fears to be controlled and even constructive.

A male teenager does not have demons or fears about getting laid by his female teacher. Quite the opposite, if he is healthy he will welcome the opportunity.

So, a question is, "does the female student have fears or desires to be laid by her male teacher?" The next question is what happens in the female amygdala and hippocampus as opposed to teenage boys.

I suggest the mechanism is totally opposite. Females fear rape and being subjugated, a demon deep in their amygdala. Females want some choice over their progeny, not to have this forced on them. Males view is one of spreading their seed, a biological imperative. There are no fears in teenage boys of being raped by a woman.

But, political correctness won't allow us to see that people, and groups of people are different. To quote John Adams "people are unequal at birth." Girls and Boys are different, and previous generations knew this instinctively. It is only in modern times that we try to cram all people into one homogeneous whole, and of course nothing fits. It also makes for crazy thinking, as if the teenage boy would be "damaged." We should actually be examining the people who promulgate this sort of thinking and wondering about their thought processes, not the teenage boy.

WJ said at July 7, 2013 7:31 PM:

"I suggest the mechanism is totally opposite. Females fear rape and being subjugated, a demon deep in their amygdala. Females want some choice over their progeny, not to have this forced on them."

I call bullshit on this. Females have generally preferred men of higher status than themselves, and generally are attracted to and marry men at least a bit older. There's room for debate whether male teachers are "higher status," but they're certainly older and probably more confident. "Subjugation" it ain't. Ironically, an older male teacher sleeping with a younger female student is, culturally and psychologically, in every way more normal than the reverse.

This notion that it's ok for female teachers to sleep with male students but not vice versa has more to do with worries about immature young women not yet the age of their majority committing an act with possibly life-changing consequences. Female teachers are old enough to make that choice. Female students are not, though why it's better when they sleep with fellow students is anyone's guess. But we also don't want to be turning schools into places where older adults get jobs because it's a great way to get some action with younger folks. Perhaps these women shouldn't be going to jail, but they sure as hell should be fired.

Check it out said at July 8, 2013 3:07 PM:

I think we all agree:

As long as it's not rape, let the teachers bone their students and let the students bone their teachers.

I also think the term "statutory rape" for having sex with people under 18 should be changed, since the term "rape" implies without consent.

I never had the chance to bang a couple of really nice female teachers I had, oh but how I wished I could've back when I was in middle and high school.

WJ said at July 8, 2013 5:43 PM:

"As long as it's not rape, let the teachers bone their students and let the students bone their teachers."

Yeah, 'cause what we really want are schools where it's one great big shagfest between teachers and students, with horny 16-year-olds chasing after their teachers, and where creepy adults get jobs so they can bag 15-year-olds.

The legality of adults sleeping with minors is one thing, and a separate discussion. Further sexualizing what's supposed to be a learning environment - a very expensive learning environment - is quite another. These teachers should lose their jobs. If they can get away with it, well bully for them.

no name said at July 9, 2013 12:25 PM:

All of you who support that guy havin' sex with his teacher are deluded lairs, especially you, mapman. How fuckin' dare you support that illegal shit. How about you be teachers and let yourselves get raped? Maybe then, you'll think twice about havin' sex with the wrong people.

Just Saying said at July 11, 2013 10:55 AM:

One of the Great things about being a college professor is the constant influx of fresh-women every year. And it is one of the well known perks of being a professor that you'll be banging those sweet-young-things for years to come. They are all legal and dipping it into the student well is expected - although never talked about...

Check it out said at July 11, 2013 6:46 PM:

no name wrote:>>"All of you who support that guy havin' sex with his teacher are deluded lairs,"

If "WJ" and "no name" are teenagers, they should experience sex with a teacher or -if they're older- with a horny studetnt so they loosen up that tight Bible Belt.

at Check it out said at July 16, 2013 9:52 AM:

who the hell are you to suggest that no name and WJ should experience sex with a teacher or with a horny student so they loosen up that tight Bible Belt? it isn't your job to decide what they can do with their lives. they don't have to loosen up if they don't want to. it's their choices if they refuse to loosen up.

i agree with what no name posted. it's wrong for teachers and students have sex. do you have any idea how harmful and dangerous that is?

and would you like it if someone forced you to have sex with him or her? if so and you suffer the consequences, you have only yourselves to blame for making that decision.

if i'm you, i'd lay the fuck off people who object to students and teachers havin' sex with each other.

Check it out said at July 17, 2013 12:26 PM:

You should also have sex with a teacher if you're a teenage student, or with a horny student, if you're a teacher.

I never said anything about "forcing" anybody to have sex, as you deceitfully imply I did, so fuck you. Teachers and teenage students should have sex -specially male students with female teachers- IF THEY WANT. This is my SUGGESTION.

Again, this is only a recommendation, ok? I'm not talknig about rape, nor do I think it is my job to decide what you do with your penis or vagina, as you deceitfully imply I believe, so fuck you again.

I will only and most kindly ask you loosen up your chastity bible belt and LET THEM HAVE THEIR SEX, because it is NOT your job to decide what they can do with their lives. Mind your own genitals.


at Check it out said at July 24, 2013 2:30 PM:

you have no idea what a hypocrite you are, dumb ass. loosening up my bible belt chastity is for losers. and i will NEVER EVER DO IT BECAUSE I LIKE THE WAY THAT I AM!! so fuck you in return, you dumb assed liar! if you don't like what i posted, then get the hell off here.

the ways that you're a hypocrite are these:

1. you claimed that teachers and students should have sex if they want to but suggested that no name and WJ should have sex to try and loosen up their chastity bible belt.

2. you told me that it's not my job to decide what i do with teachers and students lives but come off as forcin' me to loosen up my bible belt. it sounds to me that you were pressuring others into doing things that they don't want to do.

3. you claimed to kindly ask you loosen up my chastity bible belt and LET THEM HAVE THEIR SEX, and to mind my own genitals when you couldn't mind your own damn business about my sex organs. if you want me to mind those things of mine, then KEEP YOUR DAMN MOUTH SHUT ABOUT THEM!!

4. you claimed that you were being kind in asking. well, you certainly weren't kind to me. therefore, i'm not kind to you.

5. you accused me of being deceitful when you sound deceitful yourself.

my life is my business. but i don't want you corrupting the minds of other people because there seems to be too much of that in this world. as i told you before, i'll never loosen my bible belt because i'm attached to it willingly. and if you don't like it, fine with me. but don't make me feel bad about it.

and just so you, sex isn't for me. i can hate it all i want and there's nothin' you can do about it.

if you don't like what people posted online, then don't respond to it 'cause doin' that will make them type nastily to you some more.

Check it out said at July 31, 2013 12:57 PM:

Sex is not corruption as you cutely believe, so stop corrupting the minds or other people, by saying that teacher-student sex is "corruption". Let's hope there's a lot more of that wonderful sex in this world. Remember: It is NOT your job to decide what they can do with their lives.

As long as it's not rape, let the teachers bone their students and let the students bone their teachers, "and if you don't like it, fine with me. but don't make me feel bad about it."

Go tighten up that chastity bell of yours, then, before you do your evening prayers and continue showing us all what a repressed pervert you are.

Check it out's a dickhead said at August 5, 2013 10:07 PM:

Do me this favor: Shove ur self-righteous and hypocritical lies up ur ass. If u don't like wat at Check it out posted, then fuck the hell off here, u sex-obsessed attention whore! Ur the one who's a repressed pervert since u seem to be obsessed with sex like the fucked-up loser u ar.

Check it out said at August 7, 2013 5:51 PM:

I personally see nothing wrong with teenage boys having sex with older women whether they are teachers or not. Same goes for lawyers with clients, therapists with patients, classmates with classmates, bosses with subordinates, presidents with dumb secretaries or tight asses with their own hands.

It's people's business as long as everybody's autonomy is respected and there's no forcing into it.

Check it out said at August 9, 2013 4:50 PM:

I personally see nothing wrong with teenage boys having sex with older women whether they are teachers or not. Same goes for lawyers with clients, therapists with patients, classmates with classmates, bosses with subordinates, presidents with dumb secretaries or tight asses with their own hands.

It's people's business as long as everybody's autonomy is respected and there's no forcing into it.

Check it out said at August 16, 2013 10:26 PM:

On second thought, forget what I typed. I'm a shitty loser who has nothin' better to do than to get horny over sex. Hell, I have no idea what the hell I just posted. Shame on me.

Maybe I should go fuck myself since I'm full o' shit.

Check it out said at August 19, 2013 2:18 PM:

Oh, just another troll. Ok, well go do yourself, since you cannot even come up with a full idea. Oh, I'm sorry, you cannot even do yourself, can you?

Have some balls to at least get an alias of your own originality, instead of posting your cute childish make-belive insults to myself.

First you reply to me with the alias "Check it out said", later on you moved up to "at Check it out", then you outdid yourself with "Check it out's a dickhead", which I can see was quite an improvement for your mental capability. Finally you posted a puke on August 16, 2013 10:26 PM, with some trash talk plagiarizing my alias, which shows your great originality.

Setting aside your mental decay, do you have a full idea you can produce for us to consider? Or are you so much in pain due to the abuse you suffered as a child that has rendered you an impotent?

Tell me I'm wrong.

Check it out said at August 26, 2013 2:52 PM:

Well analnonymous poison, you finally came out of your cowardliness, good for you.

First: I don't know what you mean by "u", "ur" or "y" make yourself clear and type your words clearly, will you Annie? What a lazy slob. And no, sex is not all that I ever think of, but if you could get your head out of your ass, you'll see that Randall's post, at the top of the page, reads: "Guy Who Had Sex With High School Teacher Not Scarred". Surprise idiot! It is about sex, so I'm sticking to the topic, unlike you. Get it?

Second: I never said nor implied that this was my website, so fuck you and the horse you rode under. And just like you posted "so y dont u just get the fuck off of here if u dont' like what i posted to u?!" Well, you can simply take it back up yours. Oligarch complex you have there. Oh well, no, not really, I remember that your problem was impotence, right? I think I guessed that just right.

Third: You're right, I shouldn't have told you to go do yourself. I apologize for telling you to go do yourself, because that would be impossible for you, since you cannot get a hard on, so please excuse me. Don't, -and I repeat myself- DO NOT go and do yourself, you'll probably just get even more frustrated. Who knows, you could even get a heart attack and then I would have nobody to laugh at around this website.

Fourth: Stop crying like a baby for making assumptions about you right after you cowardly plagiarize my alias and insult me. Hope you learned your lesson never to spit upwards. In the end, you couldn't make yourself clear. And I'm sorry, but I judge, I judge it all, even God. That's one of man's most precious possessions, the ability to judge. You should start using your judgement.

Fifth: About your puke: "if i'm u, i'd man the hell up and leave this website for the rest of my life"....... Yeah, all right, don't call me I'll call you.

Sixth: About your puke: "if u can't stand me shitting on u, just ignore me. is that so hard?", I can only tell you that if you can't stand me shitting on you, just ignore me. Sorry man, couldn't help myself, I'm just cracking up all over you. Get all that hysteria of yours out of here.

Seventh and finally: I personally see nothing wrong with teenage boys having sex with older women whether they are teachers or not. Same goes for lawyers with clients, therapists with patients, classmates with classmates, bosses with subordinates, presidents with dumb secretaries or tight asses with their own hands. It's people's business as long as everybody's autonomy is respected and there's no forcing into it.

enemy of Check it out said at August 4, 2014 11:41 PM:

What a damn hypocrite you are, asswipe. You're even worse than that anonymous person yourself. I could tell you now but that will have to be for a later time.

Before I go, shut the hell up and shove your self-righteousness up your ass.

enemy of Check it out said at August 4, 2014 11:44 PM:

You, sir, are a fuckin 'hypocrite and full of bullshit. Do me a favor an' shove your self-righteousness without any respect for uptight people up your ass.


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